relationship

alright, i take back the first thought i wanted a blog for ( poems konon)..now lets juz pour plain thoughts on certain issues in life..i was out wif jumy yesterday..well apart from discussing about the world like we always do, there is this common topic we love to discuss..relationship..does it really matter that we have a special or particular girlfriend or boyfriend? does it really matter that we need to be in a relationship? does it really matter to declare ones love to another so dat the outsiders dont bother with our loving half?..does it really matter to have a commitment to a girl or guy and let everyone knows about it?
hmm here's wat i think..it doesnt really matter to have that one particular person in the world, coz u can always have a handful of special frens at the same time..unless this is very 'husband or wife material' la, of course..(thats for keepsake) i think to declare to be each other's better half also aint that important..to be committed to one person does not need declaration..to be committed is juz plainly being committed to him ( or her..but i'll refer to him from here on).. he's the 1st person u would tell the good news, or the bad ones..or to mengadu sakit, or mengadu domba...and dat, my fellow fren, doesnt have to be ur other half..it can be any of ur favourite fren..true? i m not saying all this coz i m plainly single right now..but its juz dat, i think for me right now, boyfren ( or buah hati ) has lost its meaning..all my guy frens are my boyfrens..most of them are very special to me...n i think to most of them, i m special to them as well..well not in that particular gf thingy, but as a fren..gender never actually plays any role in defining frenship...good frens are good frens despite being a male or female..
jumy said some thing the other day..i think its something like this ..ops i remembered..not jumy..but jibam..he said girls should always be laid back in pursuing guys of their interest..coz if the guy thinks u r worth the effort, they'll come by u..n if they dont, meaning that they juz dun think u r worth their time..or being serasi for that matter...i m not saying we girls are not worth it..dun have to pull oneself too low...but it always takes 2 to tango...right? so chemistry has to run both ways...mcm blaja persamaan redoks back in our secondary skool..btul tak? the charge of the atoms has to be balanced both right n left..gosh i think i m pretty melalut la plak..i m actually waiting for Boy to come pick me for lunch...guess this must be my hunger pangs talking..hehe,,
anyway maybe i m still being picky or choosy or juz plain lazy on discovering new potential mate for life, so everyone seems special to me..always have a special place in my heart..maybe at times i can be perasan, but who cares..malu being perasan is juz only temporary..i've gotten over it..but if i never approach, i'll never know, do it? so i dun really take jibam's advice letter by letter...i do approach some ppl, if somehow they act like they arent interested, fine..juz walk away...one down, millions to go ..:D aint that true..ok laa...tak larat nak melalut..