Friday, August 24, 2007

nERD

so i was talking to nuz, bulu and nad last nite at the curve. basically regarding me and men i dated. and all the men we dated and all the girls (or only one significant girl) that bulu dated. hell, she is my fren. haha.

yeah, so anyways, when i was asked of the 'things' that i look for in a man, i had to really come up with all the typical traits of all the men i dated. (bunyi mcm ramai plak).

and so much so, i could only come up with 3 things. and they :

i) are english proficient. hell, i get turn on easily by those who speaks good english.
ii) read books. yeah, i fancy those who i can talk and discuss about books with.
iii) now, what was the 3rd one? musician? LOL. am not sure. not sure which. maybe it's good music sense? tah. or perhaps it was graphic designers? :D

anyways, in regard to my title today, so i was telling bulu that i fancy guys that reads. and he was shocked that i get turn on by them. he never thought i was much of a girl who loves reading and loves male readers. haha.

and to add to such nerdy taste of mine, i actually once dated a librarian. haha. sounded boring? hell no. he was one good conversationalist. too good, and i fell into his trap. shite. anyway, bad lousy date aside, it's the character that we are arguing right now.

i dont know why, but seriously guys who read are such a turn on. and i dont think that's kinda nerdy. not at all. i think its kinda cool. to actually make time for self-satisfying indulgence. and plus it's only befitting when i love intellectually stimulating conversations. so, of course these type of men would enlighten me on so many things that i couldnt find time to read about. or perhaps who could find time to discuss things i read. cool giler okaaay.

so that's it. 3 typical traits that turn me on. and bulu, u rated 2 out of 3? haha. despite u getting a C for that 'spoken english for professional' class we took. haha.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I've once had a discussion-cum-analysis-cum-girltalk with my galpals about the qualifying "crazy criteria" a guy must have...

One of my friends actually only dates smokers...Euchh!!

As for me, I go ga-ga over guys in glasses... Weird huh?

thinker bell said...

haha totally weird. i used to have the opposite preference though. ( i mean the smoker part)
but now, i dont really mind. huhu.

glasses? coz maybe u don one? uhuk.

dont u think that most times that the criteria we look at in guys are usually characters that we want to possess? somewhat a projection of what u want to be?
'hmm