nasihat dari kakak

i was listening to FlyFm Fix It this morning. so there is this one girl named Nurul Iman was crying on the radio telling everyone that a Zulkifli from Penang who is studying in Shah Alam now has just broke up with her. and she had to tell him la that she loves him bla bla bla. well, frankly i was laughing when i had to listen to her problem. ye la, we were young once. we too had our bits of crying our heart out (not the bit of calling the radio just to share with the world of your failing love life that is. huhu).

so today, i think, i just want to address this entry to her, dgn memberi kata2 nasihat and panduan on what she should do in her life. heh. (mcm aku pandai sgt aje. haha.)

okay, listen to this, adik Iman. Ni kakak nak bgtau ni. there is no point of crying at this time already. if he wants to break up with u biar la. frankly, long distance relationship can hardly work. plus, i think he must have had enough from u.

i am sure by u being so far, u expect him to call everyday don't u. and expects him to text u constantly, kan? and most of the time when u called, when he is out having fun/lunch/study groups, u suspected there must be some other good looking smart girls around him kan?

pasal tu he was kinda letih with u. well, at least i was pretty letih to have an exbf who expects me to text him frequently, that he called me so many times a day. i rasa rimas. so i m sure this Zulkifli guy felt the same way.

another thing girl, trust me, that this is not gona be your only break up. in future, there'll be a few more break ups before u tie the knot or before u die. so, after crying so much and so many times, trust me, breaking up is just like another bad hair day.

it would come to an extend when u would just go like "nak break up ke? ok-lah. this relationship pon dah mcm takde hala tuju dah pon.". or " eh, where has my bf gone? just left me? haih. whatever la!" .

and by then u would realize that the one u cried your lungs out for was not among the best boyfriend u had. and rasa tak berbaloi that u wasted your youth on him. but nevertheless, the first break up is pretty essential in becoming a more confident and sophisticated u la kan? ;)

i give u the most a month of moping la kan. after a month, pls gather yourself again, and start your dating/flirting routine back. coz life is too bloody short to focus on one organism yang obviously tidak mendatangkan manfaat to you physically and mentally. heh.

sekian, nasihat daripada kakak ni. if any of you guys are friends of Nurul Iman, pls let her know of my kind intentions.

hasta luego.