am listening to a girlfren's complicated family life..am soooo sad..i wish i could help..but i juz dunno where to start..is it enuf juz to lend my ears?
her mum remarries after few years of "widowing" (is there such a word? hmm). apparently now the step-dad has full control over her mum, n mum has actually disowns her own sister..juz bcoz the step dad says so..and to add to it, the sister is actually pregnant now. and all she does now is crying.
and her real dad was trying to get to her mum to actually explain the situation, but was ignored..none of the calls nor texts were replied or attended to (to which i suggested to write a letter instead)
frens, i m juz summarizing the situation here.it's more complicated than words could explain.
at this point, i m grateful that my family is if i might say 'normal'..i mean there are ups and downs in every family, i cant deny that, but to have waves all your live would somehow dispirits oneself.
i m glad that my GIRLFREN is a strong girl, and it seems unlikely someone as strong as her would come out from such problematic cocoon.
frankly, i knew her mum, she is alright. but i suppose she must have real issues with her elder daughter.therefore, even the slightest mistake would now stir her unstable emotions.
girl, if u happen to read this, i m not criticizing ur mum, but i wish i could do something.
if only she could realize the whole situation..
if only she could be talked into solving it..
if only she could see how u girls wanted to make amends..
if only she tries to be herself again..
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