that particular reason

after talking to shake on the fon (btw, shake is not someone around me.. :P) yesterday, i do realize for a fact, my blog seems to discuss on very light stuffs..and other than that, i'm a different kind of chatter when i'm on the fon :)

anyway, too many questions answered (and i did apologize for my very elaborate explanation), one thing had strucked my mind..

the very reason why i really dont fancy talking on the fon to some ppl, and some ppl, i do..

i realize that ppl who has known me in person, wont chat much on the fon..unless to gossip la kan..i rarely have serious discussions on the fon wif nuz, azni, nico and tazril (jus to name a few)..

now, unlike chinpeng (my very shortlived bf), we used to talk nonsense on the fon.we knew each other thru a fren, and basically we knew each other for 4 years now. but since i dont really have any personal meetings with this guy, we never discussed anything very serious..the most is he listens to me grumbling about my then bf la kan..

ok,so once we were actually dating, i find his conversation no longer amusing..his jokes are pretty hard on me, and it's over-played dat i m getting tired of it.when i actually wanted to discuss anything serious, he seemed to lose it..we juz couldnt connect.

now it's obvious that u can talk rubbish on the fon, esp to ppl who wouldnt wanna connect to u.nonsense seems to be a very general topic. and it doesnt need one to think too hard about it. it's something that comes out easily, esp for me, for i'm so known to be a chatterbox..LOL

do u guys feel the same way?

i realized all this when i discussed it over again with nico..he's a great conversationalist..but then, he's totally lousy on the fon. he sounded like he rather not be talking to me at all..i used to 'bebel' at him for not being a good chatter on the fon, and in the end, i spent my time and dad's money over the fon chatting wif whoever listens to my nonsense..

and even wif my dad..i'd have a great conversation only if i talk to him in person.we'll talk bout everything..about people, attitudes, the world, religions and stuffs..but for me to call him juz to membebel over something dat juz happens to me, he juz wouldnt know wat to say..pep talk is something that my mum's good at :)

i realize that i dont fancy talking anything serious on the fon, unless for consultation purposes (ie to zati, or aina)..

hmm do u guys notice that?

or maybe i m juz being a typical gemini actually? (that i can adapt to wateva type of conversation? :P)

thanx shake for making it a point for me to ponder..and peeps, do me a favor.pls send in ur comments on it.i hope i did struck a point..