weight and women

Being one myself, I cant deny that weight is actually a BIG issue everywhere in the world.

Women would always love to ask whether they actually put on weight (when they actually know they do) Cob they are actually hoping that people won't notice.

Vain, u say? Nope. It’s actually a psychological matter. U hope it’s only u seeing yourself wrongly. And often sought after assurance from the society.

And being other women in the circle, u know what kind of answer a woman needs. Hence, u actually will tell her , ‘no honey, u look okay!..it must be top that shrinks’

Laughing, smirking now? Hehe but it IS the truth. That’s how girls do it. they'll take care of each other's emotions. they knew what is needed to protect each other.

but then, when someone did that, did say that u look okay and trying to convince u into it, being realistic, u'd realized these girls are lying to u. then u tried make yourself say, yeah, i actually put on weight. i noticed it. i can't fit in this skirt no more.

and being the others, u might say 'well, maybe a little. but a little weight won't hurt. but u still look ok.'

and the okay story will become a neverending questionnaire. convincing each other that everyone is indeed okaaay.

and the stories of diet and body training and weight lost goes on and on until the next time the girls meet ..and when someone actually has turn slim.

and that time, everyone would go ' eh, apsal kurus?..jgn kurus sgt. u elok if ade isi sket'..(why are u thin..u shouldnt be too thin. u look better with some meat on u..)

and then u come to realize, that girls rather not have another friend looking better than they do. and they'll encourage u to eat more now. despite of the lengthy weight loss programs and promotions. those are just hoax into wasting your money into the scheme they believe in.

did i just mention that girls help each other taking care of our emotions?

well, only when u feel bad about yourself. never when YOU feel good. (they might spoil it instead and that includes my mum..ceh!)