i mean not as in u have that disorder of buying shoes compulsively, but hmm.. thanks to that u gona have a problem to actually place it in order, right?
so fret not. here's the solution to it. click on the pic to read more.
thank you azni for the sharing of latest inventions ;)
well that is totally iklan tak berbayar.
anyway, am here like always to discuss some problems. well not really mine. but a problem that has been faced by every singleton in the world.
so a friend was somehow felt ashamed of himself. the girl he has been dating with (or so he thought) is actually dating and in a serious relationship with another man of another department. my friend here was like devastated when he knew of this. he thought he already made it clear by telling her that he likes her, by calling her darling , by buying handbags from dubai, by having lunch every other day together.
so some messages conveyed, but apparently the attraction doesn't work both ways. i mean, well, she might have led u into thinking that u were already someone special to her (maybe u still are), but not enough to actually mate/marry/be involved in a relationship with u. well, that's just reality.
'The one you love and the one who loves you are never, ever the same person.' - chuck palahniuk.
some things are best left that way. some men are best being bestfriends. some men are best being lovers. some men are best being husbands. some men are best being listeners. some men are best being arguers. and some men, are best being all of that. well, darling (hehe) in your case, some women then.
and eventually now, u got your standards higher. it might have hurt u a little but trust me, in the long run, it's you who's gona benefit from all this heartache. (unless u cant find anyone to be better or at par with the girl u fancy la kan? tu i tak dapat tolong la :P)
well i am none the wiser la kan, but that is how i see things when it comes to me. of course it's gonna hurt, especially when u give all u could just to prove how much u love and care for the other person. but in the end, u would learn something from it. u would realize that love or life couldnt be about 'everything that u sacrificed' . it has to be 'some things' that u shared/enjoyed/appreciated together. well, pada pendapat saya la kan. it may or may not be true even. am just talking through experiences and observations la ni.
and maybe somewhere in the future, u might become like the girl u fancied now. u too might have another lady friend whom u r closed to and she fancies u but yet u didn't wana get involved with her for the same reasons u were ditched before. (chemistry and attraction and rationality just have to gel for this kinda thing). so life as it is, a cycle.
but on the other hand, kalo sememangnya she is the ONE for u, mmg jodoh u, somehow time will tell. you guys might just be the one for each other . guess that's what happened to my kawan ketat-who-likes-to-check-on-me-if-i've-been-brainwashed-by-my-employer. heh. congratulations! would i be hearing kompangs in this near future? hahah.
okay , sekian saja nukilan dr. love :P
i hope when my time comes (to be miserable), u guys would do me this favor, remind me that the guy was not worth it, okay?
okay!
p/s: blogger.com gile! letih buat spacing, tp hilang jugak. sengal!
P/s: thank you to friends who called and asked me if i was okay after the accident. i am okay :)
4 comments:
love hurts. that's the name of the game. even if the one you love is the same as the one who loves you back, it can still hurt. maybe even more.
just because you have lunch every other day, buys expensive gifts, and stuffs... it does not necessarily mean:
1. you are inlove with the other person
2. that the receiver is inlove with you
unless, you say so. woman needs that. to hear you SAY IT. that's why some always ask, do you love me? if you don't ever, never say it.. then, it never happens.
Do i make sense? I mean, kalau tak cakap.. everything is blurry and uncertain.
Entahlah beb. Tell your friend, love hurts. Bear with it for a while, and soon, before he knows it, he has survived.
ki, i think it works both ways. laki ke pompuan ke, both parties just need to tell each other about it. but if one did that already, and the other is quiet about it, then it totally means that 'i m not really into u.'
anyway, i told him already abt being hurt and he would get over it real soon.
but as we know , soon is very subjective. u n i, of flirty nature would be fine i suppose. but those who are not, then time is totally a nervewrecking factor.
having said that, it doesnt mean that i dont have heartaches and i flirt that much to get me healed. but , u get what i mean, dont u? :D
"a friend was somehow felt ashamed of himself. the girl he has been dating with (or so he thought) is actually dating and in a serious relationship with another man"
Ouch, I hope your friend is feeling much better now. It's not really that bad once you get over it.
"she might have led u into thinking that u were already someone special to her, but not enough to actually mate/marry/be involved in a relationship with u"
Mate? Haha! I feel like I'm reading an article from Nat.Geo mag!
Accident? Hope you're allright.
47 : mate has alot of meaning my friend. :D dia mempunyai niat yg suci murni dan melangkaui batas pemikiran kebujangan (singlehood i think. hehe)
accident? alrite already. tinggal my car aje i havent deal with. sigh.
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