anyway, berkenaan tajuk for this entry, i find it hilarious that this whole week all the nasihat/stories/excuses i got mingles around cerita boyfriend, jodoh and kahwin2.
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friday night, i got a call from khairuan :k1 : fika (that's how he spelt my name), i think we have to cancel our breakfast tomorrow. i got a class to attend.
me : what class r u attending la?
k1 : kursus kawen.
me : aik, kursus kawen. u dah nak kawen dah ke?
k1 : ala gi kursus aje. kawen2 nanti pon takpe.
me : hmm okay.
k1 : we have it sunday ok?
maka this morning we had breakfast, where i got to know kursus kawen ni alasan haram aje sebenonye. the real reason was, hmm ape ek, i dah lupa. was it partying? owh, kawan dia nak datang . hampeh. i was about to ask, 'eh kursus kawen kat mana yang sehari aje ek? ' :P
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yesterday morning, me and ben had to send my aunt to KL. Aunty Mala, mom's sister. along the way from sri kembangan to KL :
AM : zura, zura dah ade bf belom?
me : takde la aunty. tak jumpa lagi.
AM : zura, jangan memilih la sangat. org muda setahun dua tahun pon takpe ( at this moment, i wonder where did she get the notion that i might be seeing younger guys la kan. hehe)
me : hmm okay *grin*
AM : zura tau tak umur uncle joe sekarang berapa?
me : erm, how old are u ek aunty?
AM : i am 46 now.
me : then uncle joe is 44 then.
everyone in the car laughed like crazy. Aunty was not aware that i knew that Uncle Joe is 2 years younger than her. hahah. gotcha!
..sambungan
AM : tu la zura. it's ok if he's young, asalkan dia responsible , tak tinggal semayang dan sume tu.
me : hmm okay *grinning all the way to KL*
(panjang lagi cerita ni, but only up til here that this story is significant to my tajuk, lain2 was about berkat doa nenek, gossip Rina and her new bf yang Pak Uteh and Mak Uteh tak minat, cerita cinta Aunty Mala sendiri. heh. irrelevant.)
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next was the call i got from Azam at 2.30pm all the way from Turkmenistan dengan ayat awalan :-
Azam : hang dok buat apa?
me : tidoq la beb. pedia? sapa ni? aku duk mamai lagi ni.
azam : ish, ni azam la. weh rafiqa, hang dah time dah ni ada boyfriend. biaq hidup hang bermakna dari tido ja hari ahad ni.
me : (hampeh) weh, i dah kuar bersosial la arini , like for breakfast. now am just tired.
azam : kalo hang ada bf, tak la se'tired' ni. u should go out dating la rafiqa. get new bf. go get married.
me : weh, funny la this week i got nasihat kawen2 aje. from my aunt, from friends, from officemates.
azam : seriously rafiqa. u are 27 this year. it's the age to start to think of having a family. masyarakat melayu kita mmg dah risau if anak dara this age tak kawen2 lagi (azam ni tak kenal azni lagi ni. hehehe)
me : nanti la azam. aku dok serabut lagi ni. taktau nak pilih sapa ni. kawan skola aku ka, kawan aku yg aku minat tp tak minat kat aku. heheheheh.
azam : weh, pi la habaq kat mamat hang minat tu pasal minat hang ni. satgi terlepas hang yg merana.
me : weh bodo, aku malu la. i think he should know la by now.
azam : nanti hang yg rugi. and since when hang malu ni woi? haha
malas nak terang lebih lanjut. the conversation revolves around ciri2 calon lelaki yang layak menjadi suami, berilah peluang pada mereka yang memerlukan, tidak ape bercinta lelaki sebaya, a guy yg berubah menjadi lebih baik should get more consideration, dan rafiqa, hang dah tua. (hampeh!)
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anyway, i just thought i want to share this , all this with u guys. do i look like i am in dire need of a serious commitment and personal attention? ( don't tell me if i do. haha.)
or maybe, just maybe that indeed i fancy a person that's obviously bad for me, but hating the one that's supposed to be good for me? and yet, i know hanya Tuhan sahaja yang mengetahui, tapi i was just being keras hati? hmm, takpe. hanya Tuhan sahaja yang mengetahui.
7 comments:
apa kata kita kawen dua aja la adek. we can always take your aunty mala punya kisah as a contoh. you're two-year younger than me what.
haha :P
kakak, that means it's only YOU yang amek contoh aunty Mala. me on the other hand, would haveto make do with a 2-years-older girlfren (i mean u la . hahah)
azni, can u pls not memotong line org2 lelaki bujang lain yg single yg mungkin taruh hati pada i skang ni? LOL.
fiqa, pics of new hair? i pon fikir nak potong rambut la. angin kat sini macam gila ok. sia2 je sikat rambut before keluar rumah.
bukan u cakap tahun ni nak kahwin ke? ok la tu. the universe is helping you getting what u wanted tihihii
em, i think it must be the age.
personally, being 27 this year, i think the thoughts about having a permanent romantic relationship more prominent.
bukan gatal nk kawn ( ada jugak sket, heh! ), but i think, we are culturally shaped that way.
along side with fitrah..
fika, ada rezeki, ada lah ek? kita sabar je la..
ina : after i manage to bluetooth the pic to my blog, will u be able to see it. btw, despite i think i look stupid and young, sume org kat office rase i look cute. muahahahahahaha mcm haram.
btw ina, it's not this year la!!! i thought next year. i just wana prove shake's theory is wrong. heh.
shahidah : i always thought that it's time to think of it. but when anyone come near me, i'd go unsure. i'd go rimas. ops, but not to everyone.
hmm now i am thinking about that someone. dapat best gak. LOL!!!!!!!
and azni, it's not KJ. not my type. hehe.
KJ is not my type either :D (tak dapat cakap la macam ni kan. haha)
but anyways, i tak potong line lelaki-lelaki bujang yang lain ok, how can i when i pon tengah bukak line untuk diri sendiri ni. haha.
azni: bukak la blog sendiri. tumpang promo diri lak kat sini.. hahahahhaha.. hahhahaha.. truffles.. hahah hahaha.. *guling-guling*
fiqa: i tak rasa pon you are in dire need of a permanent companionship. the time will comelah. my sister kawen so close to 30, when i already had 2 kids.. rilek je.
Plus, the pressure doesnt end there lah. Dah kahwin org pressure bila nak beranak. Dah beranak org tanya bila nak tambah. Dah ramai, tapi sume same gender, org tanya tak nak try for a boy/girl ke.. well u get the picture. Jgn layan tu sume beb. Buat muka tempe.. Licin, berseri. Hahahahhahahhahahha.
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